Most relationship-minded men exercise at least some degree of sexual restraint in the very beginning stages of a relationship. They're more inclined to take things slow rather than rush right into sex. After all, if their goal is to have a long-term relationship, then why rush? They know that there will be plenty of opportunities to have sex with you in the future as the relationship progresses.
On the contrary, men who are only looking for sex won't be shy about coming on strong in the beginning. They'll often try to engage you in intense, passionate make-out sessions, sometimes as early as the first or second date. Some may even proposition you for sex too. These types of guys won't keep their horniness in check for long. They want action and they want it NOW! Which brings me to my second point...
2. Relationship-minded men are willing to delay having sex (at least for awhile).
There’s no denying that all men want sex, but those who are truly looking for a serious relationship will want to get to you know you well FIRST before getting into your pants. Even if they really want to have sex with you early on in the relationship, they’ll be willing to hold out for awhile until the relationship is on more solid ground. They won’t just abandon you and walk away when you tell them you want to wait a little longer until you get to know them better.
But try telling that to a man who's only looking for sex, and I guarantee he won't stick around for long! If he can't get sex from you, he'll get it from someone else instead. I know that sounds depressing, but unfortunately that's how these types of guys think and operate. That's why you should avoid getting involved with them at all costs!
3. He wants to spend time with you OUTSIDE the bedroom too.
A man who’s interested in a serious relationship will want to do a lot more than just spend time with you inside the bedroom. He’ll actually want to go out and take you places and share new experiences with you.
On the contrary, if you're dating a sexpot, don't expect him to take you out to nice restaurants, museums, movies, sporting events, and so on. Men like that are only interested in taking you to one place: their bedroom!
If you're truly seeking a lifelong committed relationship, my advice to you is this:
Stop hanging around men who are only looking to get laid. These types of men will NEVER give you the love, respect, and commitment you deserve. Avoid them like the plague! Instead, focus your time and energy on men for who are seeking not just a great lover, but also a great long-lasting relationship.
Now I'd like to hear from you. Have you ever been with a guy who was only looking for sex? If so, how did you know this was the case? At what point in the relationship did you realize that he was only after one thing? Please share your thoughts and comments below.