Does he really like me?
Does he want to become serious with me or is he just dating me casually?
If so, then I want to let you in on a big secret: A man will show you BY HIS ACTIONS whether or not he's really into you. Here are 5 telltale signs that he’s truly interested:
When a man is really into you, he makes a concerted effort to see you on a regular basis, regardless of how busy he is with work, family, friends, etc. And when he's not seeing you, he calls or emails you regularly to keep in touch. He never leaves you wondering whether you'll ever see or hear from him again.
2. He includes you in his future plans
As he gets to know you better, he readily includes you in his future plans. For example, he talks about things he wants to do with you on future dates. If there's a new movie coming out in three weeks that he'd really like to see, he'll ask you to go see it with him. Or perhaps he'll invite you to accompany him to his friend's party next month. He makes it known that he wants to spend more time with you in the future.
3. He's willing to introduce you to his friends and family
If a guy is really serious about you, he won't be shy about telling others that you and he are a couple. He'll want to show his family and friends what an awesome, amazing woman you are!
4. He wants you for more than just sex
There’s no denying that men want sex, but those who are truly looking for a serious relationship will be genuinely interested in wanting to get to you know you well FIRST before getting into your pants. Even if they really do want to have sex with you early on in the relationship, they’ll be willing to hold out for awhile until the relationship is on more solid ground. They won’t just abandon you and walk away when you tell them you want to wait a little longer till you get to know them better.
5. He wants to date you exclusively
If a man is really serious about you, he'll want to date you exclusively. In his eyes, no other ladies out there can quite compare to you! He wants to date you and only you! If the two of you met online, he'll request that both of you remove/hide your online dating profiles from the site so that no one else can contact either of you. After all, exclusivity is a two-way street!
If your partner is consistently doing all five of these things, then there's a very good chance he's serious about you. However, if you’ve been dating him for an extended period of time, and he’s still not doing any or all of these things, then he's obviously not that into you! In that case, you’re better off severing your ties with him and moving onto someone else who's truly interested in dating a wonderful woman like you!
Remember, you deserve to be loved, cherished, and appreciated for who you are. If the person you’re dating doesn't recognize and appreciate all your great qualities, then find someone else who can give you the love and commitment you desire and deserve!
Now I want to hear from you, ladies! If you're currently dating someone, is he consistently doing all 5 of these things? What other criteria do you use (besides the five I just mentioned) to determine whether a guy is really serious about you? Please share your thoughts and comments below.